Chinese medicine says “grief dissipates qi.” After a long stretch of sadness, your chest can feel hollow, you can't seem to get enough air, and even talking takes effort.
Loss, separation, regret. When you're sad, you may catch yourself sighing without meaning to, or feel like something is pressing on your chest so you can't take a full breath.
The Lungs govern qi, and grief reaches them first
In the Five Elements, the Lungs belong to Metal, and their emotion is grief. The Yellow Emperor's Inner Classic (Huangdi Neijing) says “grief dissipates qi”: sorrow leaves qi weaker and more scattered. That's why people who've been sad for a long time often speak more softly, tire easily, and tend to feel run-down when the seasons change.
Letting yourself cry is, in itself, a way of letting qi move.
Three small habits to care for Lung qi
One: open a window every morning and take 10 slow, deep belly breaths. Two: with your thumb knuckle, gently press Shan Zhong (CV17), in the center of your chest, 36 times while slowly breathing out. Three: eat more white, moistening foods: pears, snow fungus (white wood ear), lily bulb and daikon radish.
If sadness lingers and starts affecting your sleep and daily life, reach out to someone you trust, or seek support from a licensed mental health professional.
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